I have this thing for candy canes. I know they’re not exactly good for me, since they’re full of artificial colours and flavours and sugar. I didn’t always like them, though. It wasn’t until I was 14 or 15 years old that I willed myself into liking them. I decided that it would be cool to be the sort of girl who ate candy canes, so I kept on eating them until I acquired the taste.
I’ve done the same thing many times. I didn’t always like cola, but around the same age I decided I should change that and after having a few cans of Coke, I did. I rarely drink it now (I probably average 3.5 cans per year), but there are times when it’s just what I want. I also gradually acquired a taste for wine, and strong cheese, and spicy food. I enjoy lots of things today that my eight-year-old self never would have consumed. This is why I try not to freak out if my kids are a little picky – I know they’ll probably outgrow it, just like I did.
There is, however, one taste that I have simply not been able to acquire: coffee. I’ve tried to drink it several times. When I was about 16 I thought it would be cool to drink coffee, but I could never get through a full cup. I remember trying to choke some down at a restaurant with a friend. I kept adding cream and sugar to it, trying to make it taste good, but it never did. Finally my friend said, “Give it to me, I’ll drink it.” She took one sip and promptly spat it out, declaring it more like hot coffee ice cream than actual coffee.

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When I was in university I tried, once again, to like coffee. I participated in an event called the Polar Plunge back in
Eventually, I made my peace with being a non-coffee drinker. I had an epiphany, in fact, when I realized that I didn’t have to teach myself to like it. Furthermore, by not drinking it, I was saving myself from becoming dependent on it. I watched my mom go through coffee withdrawal a couple of times, and it wasn’t pretty. Since I’ve never been a coffee drinker, I don’t need it to get going in the morning, and I don’t have to deal with any pangs if I can’t get it. In many ways, it simplifies my life.

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I will admit, though, that there are certain times when I think that maybe I should try to drink coffee once again. Those mornings that come all too soon after a long night with a sick kid. In the Vancouver Airport at 6:00am, waiting to board my plane to San Diego for BlogHer. At Starbucks watching all the other patrons with their fancy coffees topped with whipped cream and caramel swirls and chocolate shavings. I wonder if I couldn’t hack it when I was younger because I didn’t have the stomach I do now. I start to think that maybe I have something to prove. Surely if I put my mind to it, I could make myself like coffee! But then the moment passes, and I get over it.
I’ve acquired many tastes in my lifetime. I may still acquire many more. But I doubt that coffee will be one of them.
Any other non-coffee-drinkers out there? If you drink coffee, what spurred you to start? And what was your first reaction when trying coffee? I’d love to hear!
PS – I may not drink coffee, but I drink a lot of tea, and my tea cupboard shows it! I want to see yours, too. Write a blog post on or before January 18, come here to link-up, and show me your tea stash.











































