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		<title>By: Strocel.com &#124; Embarrassing Our Children</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-79663</link>
		<dc:creator>Strocel.com &#124; Embarrassing Our Children</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2011 13:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I&#8217;ve always viewed this blog as a place to share my story, but my children do naturally play a central role in that story. They&#8217;re kind of a Big Deal in my daily life, and they figure largely in my [...]</description>
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		<title>By: news</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49272</link>
		<dc:creator>news</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 00:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] any of you had any scary online experiences? If so, I&#8217;d love to hear about them. Amber at Strocel just wrote this post that I think gives even more insight into how to post personal information in [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] any of you had any scary online experiences? If so, I&#8217;d love to hear about them. Amber at Strocel just wrote this post that I think gives even more insight into how to post personal information in [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa C</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49181</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 21:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I decided at the beginning of my blog that it wouldn&#039;t be searchable by search engines. It&#039;s kept my blog small...people only get there if they find my link on another blog. I know there is a chance of unwanted visitors, but that chance is small.

I show no frontal nudity, though I have occasionally shown naked butt pics of my son who is now 22 months, and I am always wondering if I should remove them...it&#039;s hard though because he does spend a lot of time naked and the pictures help tell our story. 

As for content, I am hyper-aware of what I am sharing because everyone I know reads my blog, so if I am okay with all them knowing what I share, then I should be okay with the whole world knowing it, too.
.-= Lisa C´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://edenwild.wordpress.com/2010/05/06/socialization-of-children/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Socialization of Children&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I decided at the beginning of my blog that it wouldn&#8217;t be searchable by search engines. It&#8217;s kept my blog small&#8230;people only get there if they find my link on another blog. I know there is a chance of unwanted visitors, but that chance is small.</p>
<p>I show no frontal nudity, though I have occasionally shown naked butt pics of my son who is now 22 months, and I am always wondering if I should remove them&#8230;it&#8217;s hard though because he does spend a lot of time naked and the pictures help tell our story. </p>
<p>As for content, I am hyper-aware of what I am sharing because everyone I know reads my blog, so if I am okay with all them knowing what I share, then I should be okay with the whole world knowing it, too.<br />
.-= Lisa C´s last post ..<a href="http://edenwild.wordpress.com/2010/05/06/socialization-of-children/" rel="nofollow">Socialization of Children</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica - This is Worthwhile</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49129</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica - This is Worthwhile</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 17:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a very strict no nudity policy.  I&#039;ll show Hollis shirt-less, but that&#039;s because he&#039;s a boy.  If I had a little girl, I wouldn&#039;t show her topless regardless of her baby-ness because pedophiles like that.  No cute baby butt shots EVER.  I only send those directly to very close family (like my mom and sister) and no one else and they know never to pass those on or post them anywhere, either.  

I don&#039;t honestly know the what the big hub-bub is about posting pics of your kids.  A pedophile will sexualize a child in any scenario, no matter what we do or how we share our kids.  He (or she) will find enjoyment in your little one walking in the mall or playing soccer.  It&#039;s not JUST about photos.  It&#039;s simply nothing about the child and how he or she is dressed or what he or she is doing anyway.  It&#039;s about the sickness of some adult somewhere and, sadly, we can&#039;t control what he (or she) finds exciting.

Having said that, I do still have my limits re: nudity.  I&#039;m not going to ever knowingly share something that would definitely be fodder to a pedophile.
.-= Jessica - This is Worthwhile´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thisisworthwhile.blogspot.com/2010/05/its-just-color-or-is-it.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It&#039;s just a color.  Or is it?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a very strict no nudity policy.  I&#8217;ll show Hollis shirt-less, but that&#8217;s because he&#8217;s a boy.  If I had a little girl, I wouldn&#8217;t show her topless regardless of her baby-ness because pedophiles like that.  No cute baby butt shots EVER.  I only send those directly to very close family (like my mom and sister) and no one else and they know never to pass those on or post them anywhere, either.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t honestly know the what the big hub-bub is about posting pics of your kids.  A pedophile will sexualize a child in any scenario, no matter what we do or how we share our kids.  He (or she) will find enjoyment in your little one walking in the mall or playing soccer.  It&#8217;s not JUST about photos.  It&#8217;s simply nothing about the child and how he or she is dressed or what he or she is doing anyway.  It&#8217;s about the sickness of some adult somewhere and, sadly, we can&#8217;t control what he (or she) finds exciting.</p>
<p>Having said that, I do still have my limits re: nudity.  I&#8217;m not going to ever knowingly share something that would definitely be fodder to a pedophile.<br />
.-= Jessica &#8211; This is Worthwhile´s last post ..<a href="http://thisisworthwhile.blogspot.com/2010/05/its-just-color-or-is-it.html" rel="nofollow">It&#8217;s just a color.  Or is it?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Inder</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49087</link>
		<dc:creator>Inder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 05:08:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the &quot;infamous breastfeeding photo&quot;!!! 

Like you, I just can&#039;t work up too much paranoia about the internet. The internet is public. That&#039;s the reality. I am a lawyer, and I am careful about what I say on my blog. As we say in our business to our clients: If you don&#039;t want to see it on the front page of the Chronicle/Times/Whatever, well, DON&#039;T SAY IT. And especially, for heaven&#039;s sake, DON&#039;T EMAIL IT. I try to live by this too! But basically, I&#039;m an open book. And hoping not to get burned, as a prior commenter said.

I love your blog, BTW. Keep the pictures coming!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the &#8220;infamous breastfeeding photo&#8221;!!! </p>
<p>Like you, I just can&#8217;t work up too much paranoia about the internet. The internet is public. That&#8217;s the reality. I am a lawyer, and I am careful about what I say on my blog. As we say in our business to our clients: If you don&#8217;t want to see it on the front page of the Chronicle/Times/Whatever, well, DON&#8217;T SAY IT. And especially, for heaven&#8217;s sake, DON&#8217;T EMAIL IT. I try to live by this too! But basically, I&#8217;m an open book. And hoping not to get burned, as a prior commenter said.</p>
<p>I love your blog, BTW. Keep the pictures coming!</p>
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		<title>By: Juli Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49079</link>
		<dc:creator>Juli Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 23:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I only have been blogging a year. I use a version of my real name, my husband&#039;s first name, and a pseudonym for our son, Five. At first, I was too paranoid to post photos of myself (I was worried about identity theft.). I have since posted photos of me and my husband. However, there STILL are no photos of Five on my blog. I was concerned, not about pedophiles, but about Five&#039;s right to privacy. I wanted him to be able to choose whether he wants his photos in public places. As it turns out, Five WANTS me to post photos of him on my blog, so I probably will.post some soon. (Maybe.) There are photos of Five that my &quot;friends&quot; can see on Facebook and on Flickr.
.-= Juli Ryan´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.juliryan.com/2010/05/challenge-test.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Challenge test.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I only have been blogging a year. I use a version of my real name, my husband&#8217;s first name, and a pseudonym for our son, Five. At first, I was too paranoid to post photos of myself (I was worried about identity theft.). I have since posted photos of me and my husband. However, there STILL are no photos of Five on my blog. I was concerned, not about pedophiles, but about Five&#8217;s right to privacy. I wanted him to be able to choose whether he wants his photos in public places. As it turns out, Five WANTS me to post photos of him on my blog, so I probably will.post some soon. (Maybe.) There are photos of Five that my &#8220;friends&#8221; can see on Facebook and on Flickr.<br />
.-= Juli Ryan´s last post ..<a href="http://www.juliryan.com/2010/05/challenge-test.html" rel="nofollow">Challenge test.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Maman A Droit</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49076</link>
		<dc:creator>Maman A Droit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 20:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think pretty much any point I&#039;d want to make has already been made here, but I did want to throw out the fact that according to Google Analytics, someone actually found my blog by googling &quot;breastfeeding porn&quot;! They must&#039;ve been sad when they discovered I&#039;ve never posted a pic of me breastfeeding, but I was still pretty creeped out!
.-= Maman A Droit´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://mamanadroit.blogspot.com/2010/05/tuesday-is-newsday.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tuesday is Newsday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think pretty much any point I&#8217;d want to make has already been made here, but I did want to throw out the fact that according to Google Analytics, someone actually found my blog by googling &#8220;breastfeeding porn&#8221;! They must&#8217;ve been sad when they discovered I&#8217;ve never posted a pic of me breastfeeding, but I was still pretty creeped out!<br />
.-= Maman A Droit´s last post ..<a href="http://mamanadroit.blogspot.com/2010/05/tuesday-is-newsday.html" rel="nofollow">Tuesday is Newsday</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49074</link>
		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 18:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a good topic. I made my parenting blog private because I was weirded out about the strangers visiting from around the world and the level of details I was posting, mostly in effort to make myself a Blurb photo book. Now, I have about 35 subscribers to that blog, people I know. 

Someone also pointed out to me that my photos were appearing on someone else&#039;s blog as an illustration (for using an ice cube tray for meals), so I delisted my photos from search engines. Before I did that, when I searched snack tray in Google, I noticed that photo came up top. That was probably my creepiest blogging experience. I should probably watermark my photos too, but I haven&#039;t bothered.

On my daily photo blog, I did post a naked backside picture recently, and I&#039;ve been worrying about it, but I keep thinking that it&#039;s harmless and cute, my kid sitting at her drum set in the buff. But would I hand out 1,000 copies in downtown Toronto, I don&#039;t know.
.-= Cara´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://carasdailyphoto.blogspot.com/2010/04/back-to-potty-bubbles.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Back to potty bubbles...&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a good topic. I made my parenting blog private because I was weirded out about the strangers visiting from around the world and the level of details I was posting, mostly in effort to make myself a Blurb photo book. Now, I have about 35 subscribers to that blog, people I know. </p>
<p>Someone also pointed out to me that my photos were appearing on someone else&#8217;s blog as an illustration (for using an ice cube tray for meals), so I delisted my photos from search engines. Before I did that, when I searched snack tray in Google, I noticed that photo came up top. That was probably my creepiest blogging experience. I should probably watermark my photos too, but I haven&#8217;t bothered.</p>
<p>On my daily photo blog, I did post a naked backside picture recently, and I&#8217;ve been worrying about it, but I keep thinking that it&#8217;s harmless and cute, my kid sitting at her drum set in the buff. But would I hand out 1,000 copies in downtown Toronto, I don&#8217;t know.<br />
.-= Cara´s last post ..<a href="http://carasdailyphoto.blogspot.com/2010/04/back-to-potty-bubbles.html" rel="nofollow">Back to potty bubbles&#8230;</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: melissa</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49058</link>
		<dc:creator>melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 13:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like a lot of posters here, I agree with your common-sense approach Amber. Your thoughts were a nice counterpoint to all the &quot;ZOMG! Don&#039;t do this!&quot; attitude in the rest of the article and the comments. 

My attitude on pictures and content are &quot;if I&#039;m okay with my mom reading this, the world can read this&quot;. I post my pictures publicly so my family can see them quickly. Until recently, my mother was still on dialup so emailling her pictures was a chore for me (resizing), and for her (opening an email, downloading and walking away to get a coffee). My mum and MIL are still fairly new to the Internet (email is a big deal for them), so asking them to get involved in Facebook seems like overkill when I can send them to a photosharing site like Flickr (which is what I used pre-kid).

I use my common sense when posting pictures of my daughter (no nudie shots, no diaper messes, no gross/embarrassing stuff). That still leaves me tons of pictures to post detailing this part of her life. Once she is older, I will involve her in any photo sharing I do, and respect any wishes she has. The same way I do with my family and friends. (I got in trouble with my husband once after I posted a picture of him sleeping on the couch with the dog - he was fully dressed, but it bothered him. Now I remember to ask him if it&#039;s okay to post a picture of him.)
.-= melissa´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://hellomelissa.net/2010/04/20/i-love-a-good-magazine/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I love a good magazine&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like a lot of posters here, I agree with your common-sense approach Amber. Your thoughts were a nice counterpoint to all the &#8220;ZOMG! Don&#8217;t do this!&#8221; attitude in the rest of the article and the comments. </p>
<p>My attitude on pictures and content are &#8220;if I&#8217;m okay with my mom reading this, the world can read this&#8221;. I post my pictures publicly so my family can see them quickly. Until recently, my mother was still on dialup so emailling her pictures was a chore for me (resizing), and for her (opening an email, downloading and walking away to get a coffee). My mum and MIL are still fairly new to the Internet (email is a big deal for them), so asking them to get involved in Facebook seems like overkill when I can send them to a photosharing site like Flickr (which is what I used pre-kid).</p>
<p>I use my common sense when posting pictures of my daughter (no nudie shots, no diaper messes, no gross/embarrassing stuff). That still leaves me tons of pictures to post detailing this part of her life. Once she is older, I will involve her in any photo sharing I do, and respect any wishes she has. The same way I do with my family and friends. (I got in trouble with my husband once after I posted a picture of him sleeping on the couch with the dog &#8211; he was fully dressed, but it bothered him. Now I remember to ask him if it&#8217;s okay to post a picture of him.)<br />
.-= melissa´s last post ..<a href="http://hellomelissa.net/2010/04/20/i-love-a-good-magazine/" rel="nofollow">I love a good magazine</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren @ Hobo Mama</title>
		<link>http://www.strocel.com/thoughts-on-internet-privacy/#comment-49050</link>
		<dc:creator>Lauren @ Hobo Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 10:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been very open since the inception of teh internetz. One of our first reasons for getting into web design was to post photos of our wedding for family and friends. But, being cautious of other people&#039;s privacy, we used only first names of other people, and we took other precautions, such as not publishing our home address online. Of course, it is online, regardless, but we thought we&#039;d make it harder for serial killers to track us down after seeing how adorable our wedding photos were. Another option we chose was making our private blog, which includes pictures of friends and family (and my mother in her nightgown on Christmas morning, which she protested but didn&#039;t make me remove), not searchable by search engines.

Now that I have a kid who&#039;s getting every so slightly older, I do think more about his privacy as well, as I always have with my husband. If either wants me to remove or edit something on my public blog, I would. But I guess I&#039;m just not really all that scared of stalkers or abductors or perverts. Yes, they could be using &lt;i&gt;my&lt;/i&gt; pictures for their perversions, but likely they&#039;re not, and there&#039;s not much I can do about it except make sure that what I post is tasteful (to my own levels of taste, of course).
.-= Lauren @ Hobo Mama´s last post ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HoboMama/~3/up7enzo7lLc/on-first-miscarriage.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;On a first miscarriage&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been very open since the inception of teh internetz. One of our first reasons for getting into web design was to post photos of our wedding for family and friends. But, being cautious of other people&#8217;s privacy, we used only first names of other people, and we took other precautions, such as not publishing our home address online. Of course, it is online, regardless, but we thought we&#8217;d make it harder for serial killers to track us down after seeing how adorable our wedding photos were. Another option we chose was making our private blog, which includes pictures of friends and family (and my mother in her nightgown on Christmas morning, which she protested but didn&#8217;t make me remove), not searchable by search engines.</p>
<p>Now that I have a kid who&#8217;s getting every so slightly older, I do think more about his privacy as well, as I always have with my husband. If either wants me to remove or edit something on my public blog, I would. But I guess I&#8217;m just not really all that scared of stalkers or abductors or perverts. Yes, they could be using <i>my</i> pictures for their perversions, but likely they&#8217;re not, and there&#8217;s not much I can do about it except make sure that what I post is tasteful (to my own levels of taste, of course).<br />
.-= Lauren @ Hobo Mama´s last post ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HoboMama/~3/up7enzo7lLc/on-first-miscarriage.html" rel="nofollow">On a first miscarriage</a> =-.</p>
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